Q & A 53

An invocation before sexual intercourse between spouses

A question sent to the UNIFICATION website and its answer given by Presence of the One on 13 September 2017
Updated on 16 July 2022

 

We have already been told from Above that before the spouses have sexual intercourse with each other, it is good for them to tune themselves and to direct the energy from the intercourse to the Higher octaves of Light by saying the following invocation:

Lord, we give You completely unselfishly and unconditionally
the Energy of the Creation – the energy of the Great Mother,
which I ..….. (the first name) and my husband/wife ..….. (the first name) are going to swirl up between each other.
We intertwine our male and female energies into a unified whole
and give it to You, dear Father One, to use it
as You find best.
May all be according to Your Holy Will, Lord!
AMEN TAKKA DA BUDDEH OM
Thank you, Lord, for everything!
Thank You! Thank You! Thank You!
We Love You with all our hearts and Souls, with all our Divine Love, dear Father One!
We bow to You! We are sending our Divine Love to You!

 

Question: If one of the spouses feels uncomfortable with the invocation, refuses to read it, and there is disagreement, i.e. the relationship starts to deteriorate, then is it acceptable and is it good from the Lord's point of view only one of the spouses to prepare him/herself, and how should this be done?

Answer: It would be best if both the husband and wife do what has been given from Above.

But if one of the spouses is unwilling to read the invocation him/herself, it is acceptable that the other spouse from the couple reads it in the name of both of them, and the first spouse participates just by listening to that.

When this second option is dropped due to one of the spouses' negative attitude, the other has to focus his/her attention on finding the cause and root cause of that behaviour.

Because if, during the sexual intercourse, one of the spouses imagines that he/she is doing it with another partner, in this case with another woman, or that more women are involved, then it is quite understandable that he would be unwilling to read or hear the invocation. All thoughts/pictures and feelings in his head are directed somewhere else – entirely towards a network of the illusion, which is dangerous for the other spouse – in this case, his wife, if her thoughts are pure and she is in the network of Light.

It is dangerous for both spouses if they are Light beings, and someone from the subtle plane encourages one of them to have virtual sex, which is harmful, during the actual intercourse. Because this is considered to be infidelity in thoughts and feelings as at this moment, it directs the sexual energy – the Energy of the Creation, of both spouses to a network of the illusion. That leads to a karmic burden, to violation of the integrity of the family aura (if there is any left at that point or if it existed at all) and creating the possibility for the family aura to be occupied by astral beings who feed on this sinfully directed sexual energy and distorted energy of the Divine Love, which ceases to be such.

If one of the spouses says the invocation given above, he/she protects both from the chaos. If both spouses say it, the energy of the sexual intercourse is directed towards the Higher octaves of Light to their Higher Selves and later on may help both of them, their children and grandchildren in case of need.

However, if one of the two spouses is a representative of one of the networks of the illusion, or he is a Light being that has misled his life sinfully, resides predominantly in the network of the darkness and gives his/her energy there and explicitly refuses to hear the invocation in silent consent when the other spouse reads it or even completely refuses his/her name to be mentioned in this invocation, then the only thing the other spouse can do is to say that invocation before having the sexual intercourse but only in his own name and in private, by stating clearly:

For a woman:

Lord, I give You completely unselfishly and unconditionally
my Energy of the Creation – the energy of the Great Mother,
which I ..….. (the first name) am about to swirl up with my husband.
I intertwine my female energy with the energy of my husband
into a unified whole and give it to You, dear Father One, to use it as You find best!
May all be according to Your Holy Will, Lord!
AMEN   TAKKA DA BUDDEH   OM
Thank you, Lord, for everything!
Thank You! Thank You! Thank You!
I Love You with all my heart and Soul, with all my Divine Love, dear Father One!
I bow to You! I am sending my Divine Love to You!

For a man:

Lord, I give You completely unselfishly and unconditionally
my Energy of the Creation – the energy of the Great Mother,
which I ..….. (the first name) am about to swirl up with my wife.
I intertwine my male energy with the energy of my wife
into a unified whole and give it to You, dear Father One, to use it as You find best!
May all be according to Your Holy Will, Lord!
AMEN   TAKKA DA BUDDEH   OM
Thank you, Lord, for everything!
Thank You! Thank You! Thank You!
I Love You with all my heart and Soul, with all my Divine Love, dear Father One!
I bow to You! I am sending my Divine Love to You!

It would also be good for the spouse who says the invocation to check how he/she feels after the sexual intercourse. Does he/she feel that energy flows towards him/her, is he/she joyful, does his/her Soul feel light, does he/she feel like singing, dancing and working, as it normally happens when the energy of both spouses is directed Above, or is it exactly the opposite?

If the result is negative, and this has been the case for quite some time, and that is still the case after he/she started saying the invocation only in his/her name, then he/she should think deeply and ask him/herself some more questions while he/she is still in relatively good health.

I AM Presence of the One